Orla, I think there is plenty of anecdotal evidence to suggest we are, many of us as you decribe in your story are distracted.

I think it is a difficult one to call and depends on who you are ask. It may be generational; not that I really want to go there but I know a number of people who are increasingly aware either through reading or monitoring their own habits how attention grabbing phones can be. They make a conscious effort to be present at the opportunity of conversation.

On a different note I hope frustrations are over, you are all settled and your stay is less stressful.